How do you cope with a partner who just doesn't get what you're going through? Thinks depression is an option, you can turn it off when you feel like it.
Wife's birthday yesterday coincided with my worst day for depression and anxiety. Was ready to blow, ruined the day, fled the house twice just so my head didn't explode. Really bad way. But she thinks there is an on/off switch and this anger was directed at her intentionally. It wasn't, I asked to be left alone but she continued to pick, push my buttons.
Moving forward, haven't a clue what to do for the best. Seems to be one small step forward, two big ones back. Feel worse now than in the 5-6 weeks since everything kicked off.