I think there is a different option (not withstanding serious health issues).
We have been conditioned (capitalism) that care homes are the natural state.
It didn’t used to be like that.
We nursed my nana at our house as she went through cancer before she died in lovely bedroom with my mum by her side.
That was early 80’s
We were discussing potential care for us with my son and his partner. She is south Asian heritage.
She was horrified and basically said - ‘you will come and live with us if necessary’.
Community and culture are different.
As was my son’s face when she said it