Ingleby Barwick is fine. The only thing that puts me off IB is that it is a little flat and featureless. I would prefer Coulby Newham which has a decent shopping centre and more trees, and if you like running or walking in the woods there is Fairy Dell to serve your purposes.
People say this all the time and it's usually when they've spent zero time here. Almost word for word what my girlfriend said when she wanted us to live in Redcar and now she kicks herself over dragging her feet.
I grew up in hemlington and coulby and wouldn't trade it for Ingleby at all. There's a walk along the leven behind our house with horses, donkeys, highland cows, alpacas etc, I can be on great bike ride routes within 5 minutes, cycle paths all around the estate and into Stockton, it's got bars, restaurants, supermarkets, farm shops on the doorstep, the community is really good. Yarm, Thornaby, Stockton all right nearby. Every part of Ingleby has walking routes around it without the need for going to fairy dell.
There's loads of things I see people say about Ingleby all the time about being soulless, houses all look the same, houses too close together etc and none of it is true. I spent lockdown running round every street in Ingleby and it's got a massive variety of houses from terraces to unreal massive houses and most streets are completely different.
Everyone in our street has been really great and loads of fundraising going ok for defib machines, community markets every month at local pub and any issues get sorted quickly.
The below is 2 minutes walk from my house but every section of Ingleby has access to forest or river walks around it and all linked by cycle paths and walking / running routes.