Always seem to turn it round onto you. The bloke was telling you how in his experience, 'its only' is not valid, as he is the only family for an elderly gentleman who lives 300+ miles away so for that bloke, his rugby club is his life but going by your words its only rugby? Your choice of words is pathetic for someone who preaches mental health and has had countless posts on your own mental health but when someone else has a different view, you're quick to diminish those views and turn it back onto you topping yourself, again.
FFS.