With respect, I think you are going a little over the top.
I‘m very sorry if pointing out your small while lie has upset you. If it was just absent mindedness then hey, we all make mistakes.
I‘m very sorry you are currently grieving. I am too and that’s a horrible place to be.
I don’t care if you are a Tory or voted Labour.
You said you were previously banned for telling people they were racist regarding use of the term BAME, and that sounds like an interesting thread that would be up my street, that’s all. I asked who you were previously because the only post that I could find close to your description of the offending post, was by someone who only posted one further time, so I thought that might have been the thread in question. But that poster didn’t get banned for calling people racist, as they posted one further time. Although I could fully understand why they were then banned, given their final post. Anyway, you’ve said that wasn’t you so that’s cool. I’m just explaining why I asked what your previous username was.
We've had a lot of trolls, shills and bad faith actors post here over the years, so perhaps you will understand why people are interested in those who admit to have been previously banned.
Anyway, I meant no offence by it.
Good day.