Actually, I have just taken the time to watch those highlights.
The pen is a pen in this day and age. Not sure where the issue is with that one. Some probably refer to this as a soft pen, but they are being given all the time.
The hand in Bellingham's face, ok that would be hard to take given the goal just scored. But he does swing his arm out and catches him with his hand.
Vini Jr goal, well its obvious isnt it? Where is the confusion? The ball has to strike below the armpit, which is sometimes thought of as the bottom of the t-shirt arm cuff, been around for 4 seasons now I think. The ball strikes Vini Jnr high up his arm, so how is that handball?
Love a conspiracy theory me, but nothing really to see here.