I fkn hate my life

[Redagain]

Woke up this morning without a care In the world.
Currently sat at n the corridor outside ICU in James Cook with Dad inside

He is not going to wake up

I love you Dad

 

[Muttley]

Oh man that is terrible. I had to sit with my mother through her final hours. It isn't easy but you will get through it.

Take care of yourself it's what your dad would tell you if he could

 

[sherlock]

So sorry to hear that, life can be so hard.

Try to look after yourself as best you can in difficult circumstances.

 

[newyddion]

Woke up this morning without a care In the world.
Currently sat at n the corridor outside ICU in James Cook with Dad inside

He is not going to wake up

I love you Dad

Really sorry to hear this x

 

[Emmersons_BrazillianDong]

Woke up this morning without a care In the world.
Currently sat at n the corridor outside ICU in James Cook with Dad inside

He is not going to wake up

I love you Dad

Sorry to hear this mate. I can't even imagine the worry and pain.

 

[weemoby]

That's horrible.
Take care of yourself.

 

[Norfolkred1]

I feel for you fella, from experience. Stay strong.

 

[Norman_Conquest]

Woke up this morning without a care In the world.
Currently sat at n the corridor outside ICU in James Cook with Dad inside

He is not going to wake up

I love you Dad

That really is sad news, do you have anyone with you?

 

[Boroshirtmuseum]

Take care of yourself mate

 

[Lemmy_kilmister]

Was in your position last Friday.

I know how your feeling.
Stay strong.

 

[swordtrombonefish]

So sorry mate and for you too Lemmy

Been there for mum and dad and on both occasions I felt the world just fold underneath me.

Time is a healer - take care and if needed be strong for those around you.

 

[Billy Horner]

I sat with my dad through the final moments a few years ago. It’s horrible and I feel for you.

Take care. The future you will feel better/stronger for doing this.

 

[FabioPorkpie]

Sorry to hear this. Take care pal

 

[TeessideCleveland]

Sorry to hear that mate

 

[Lady Felicia]

I'm so sorry to hear this, Redagain. I've had to go through this on more than one occasion and it isn't easy, but as others have said, you will feel better afterwards when looking back on this sad and difficult time.

My thoughts are with you.

 

[bungydinsdale]

I was 'lucky' when my Mam died as I was in NZ, but my sis was there throughout and it was horrible for her watching a once-strong woman fade away and die as the dementia took a bigger hold.
As others have said time does heal and be sure that your Dad would really appreciate that you re there for him. Kia kaha mate (Kia kaha is a Māori phrase used by the people of New Zealand as an affirmation, meaning stay strong. The phrase has significant meaning for Māori: popularised through its usage by the 28th Māori Battalion during World War II, it is found in titles of books and songs, as well as a motto.)

 

[Habibi]

Woke up this morning without a care In the world.
Currently sat at n the corridor outside ICU in James Cook with Dad inside

He is not going to wake up

I love you Dad

My heart goes out to you. Take good care of yourself

 

[xxlshirts_fit_all]

At 53 I should be ‘grown up’ enough to not worry about this but my mam n dad ain’t getting any younger… its now one of the things that plays on my mind the most as I work away from home a lot…

Sorry to hear your news and I hope you manage to find what you need to get through this difficult time… places like this forum are always good to anonymously vent your feelings and get support, we’re all here for you, as much as we can be

 

[HarryVegas]

So sorry to read this mate. Like others I've been through it. It's so hard but you will come out the other side. Death is part of life but it's a very hard thing to deal with when it happens to your nearest and dearest.

 

[Legz]

I'm so sorry to read this Redagain...take care xx