In May, both Sweden and Finland are due to formally apply for membership of NATO. It is unlikely that they will be successful. 1. Russia has stated its intention to attack them if they do, probably with missile strikes. They will do this because NATO applications can't be accepted from nations in conflict. 2. Germany has already said that they will veto the application. Why? Because they are heavily dependent upon Russian gas imports (having Nordstream 1 &2 as joint ventures with Russia) and so would not go to war with Russia if Russia attacked either of those states.
As was pointed out the other day, this has nothing much to do with the German people, but more to do with the politicians and big business.
But it will tell you that national (for that read economic) interest will come before unity.
Better news (from my usual source), the elite 76th Guards Airborne Division, normally based in Pskov to take care of any Baltic conflict, have been in Ukraine and have downed weapons, effectively becoming Refuseniks because they wouldn't tolerate orders to kill civilians. Apparently their officers have been arrested for treason and the soldiers confined to their barracks under armed guard. If true, this would indicate that there is some collective morality at play in some quarters of the Russian military. It's a blow to Putin as they were his best fighting division left.