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NoloBoro
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Bu
The opposite of depression can be equally destructive, more so for the people close to you.
But… this isn’t about me, I just thought I’d share to provide context.
Buddhism is not about collective worship, it’s a philosophy that is about your personal relationship with the world.
The central concept is that life is suffering, it speaks of the impermanence of things, good and bad.
I’ve felt most at peace when I’ve practiced/lived it, unfortunately I struggle with concentration, but for you, it may be the key to dealing with the pain you’re in.
I sincerely wish you well, I hope you find peace.
You are not alone.
I Think I’ve shared some of the issues I’ve had with my mental health, I have a couple of enduring conditions that have caused havoc for me, that said I’ve never been depressed and believe me when I say it, my heart does go out to you.Ha. Fking bizarre. I am in an American Buddhist call right now. I've been to a Buddhist retreat several times, it is for me. It just isn't as accessible as a church. But this online group is great, just full of yanks
The opposite of depression can be equally destructive, more so for the people close to you.
But… this isn’t about me, I just thought I’d share to provide context.
Buddhism is not about collective worship, it’s a philosophy that is about your personal relationship with the world.
The central concept is that life is suffering, it speaks of the impermanence of things, good and bad.
I’ve felt most at peace when I’ve practiced/lived it, unfortunately I struggle with concentration, but for you, it may be the key to dealing with the pain you’re in.
I sincerely wish you well, I hope you find peace.
You are not alone.
NoloBoro
Well-known member
Bu
The opposite of depression can be equally destructive, more so for the people close to you.
But… this isn’t about me, I just thought I’d share to provide context.
Buddhism is not about collective worship, it’s a philosophy that is about your personal relationship with the world.
The central concept is that life is suffering, it speaks of the impermanence of things, good and bad.
I’ve felt most at peace when I’ve practiced/lived it, unfortunately I struggle with concentration, but for you, it may be the key to dealing with the pain you’re in.
I sincerely wish you well, I hope you find peace.
You are not alone.
I Think I’ve shared some of the issues I’ve had with my mental health, I have a couple of enduring conditions that have caused havoc for me, that said I’ve never been depressed and believe me when I say it, my heart does go out to you.Ha. Fking bizarre. I am in an American Buddhist call right now. I've been to a Buddhist retreat several times, it is for me. It just isn't as accessible as a church. But this online group is great, just full of yanks
The opposite of depression can be equally destructive, more so for the people close to you.
But… this isn’t about me, I just thought I’d share to provide context.
Buddhism is not about collective worship, it’s a philosophy that is about your personal relationship with the world.
The central concept is that life is suffering, it speaks of the impermanence of things, good and bad.
I’ve felt most at peace when I’ve practiced/lived it, unfortunately I struggle with concentration, but for you, it may be the key to dealing with the pain you’re in.
I sincerely wish you well, I hope you find peace.
You are not alone.
sadgit
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What I love about this place is i feel like a real person and I never expected people to open like you have and others. Buddhism is what I want, not to be a monk but to feel it and learn more. Just left the American Buddhist call and could join another at UK 1am call but I am exhausted, I've talked for about 6 hours today.
red_clowne
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I have a spare ticket for today's game in the West Upper. I'm coming to the game on my own - my wife is doing so stuff around Easter back home.
I normally arrive around 1.30pm. If you want the ticket it's free.
I normally arrive around 1.30pm. If you want the ticket it's free.
red_clowne
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Sorry, meant to add - just let me know. I set off for the match at 10.30am.
sadgit
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Are you really sure? Thank you so much, I normally get a ticket for block 81, upper west stand. I would give a donation to the charity of your choice.
sadgit
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I cannot go today, I'm not physically able to get there. Lack of food and sleep. Thank you again but give the ticket to someone else, if you can.
Morning Sir, Please reconsider this. I live up Ormesby Bank and can drop off some breakfast for you. I can also pick you up and take you to the game.
How about I collect some fresh clothes from your house and bring them over?
sadgit
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I have a spare t-shirt etc but I don't want anyone to see me like this. I will go and get my free breakfast at the hotel and then sleep. That is so so kind of you. The kindness people show is unreal. I'm just a bit exhausted and have several panic attacks today. 1st thing, food, then rest
sadgit
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Hanging in and devout Buddhism is something I want in my life. I am starting to think people here are getting sick of my posts.My sister in law is a devout Buddhist, has been from birth. She's horizontal, nothing bothers her. Her mental state is just (99.999%) relaxed. I'd love to be like that.....
Hang in there sadgit
guisborough_rob
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Never. All I want to hear is that you are still here and fighting whatever it is you are battling with. Please don’t stop posting.
sadgit
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My mother's birthday today and the day I lost both grandparents. I don't feel any emotion about any of them. Oh well
h_m_boro
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Definitely not.
Load of great people on here, more than willing to happily lend an ear (or a read!) and realise it's important not to bottle things up.
Only thing I know about Buddhism is that any statues/ornaments of Buddha need to be higher than any other in the room......sister in law put us right on this last time she was over here. About the most "angry" I've seen her!
Muttley
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It isn't compulsory to grieve. At least not in the feeling weepy/feely sort of way or whatever. The fact that you remember the date shows that you are processing grief in your own way. There are no rules in grieving so don't beat yourself up about not being upset, today is a day like any other.
Go easy on yourself and take care.
The offer is open and totally unlimited pal. I have been through anxiety related problems, so can understand a little of what you are going through. For what it's worth, I always find that challenging myself to do things that are slightly outside my comfort zone is what makes the difference. Even a little moment of achievement or happiness can be the start.
It's easy for me to say but please don't worry about what anyone else might be thinking. Most people will either want to help or be too preoccupied with their own stuff to think negatively of you.
Enjoy your breakfast, get a few hours sleep and go to the match. Sounds like the makings of a positive day!
Offer of a lift to the game is still open too
guisborough_rob
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Lovely post, Juno and it sums up the way most of us feel about Mr Git’s posts and him as a person.The offer is open and totally unlimited pal. I have been through anxiety related problems, so can understand a little of what you are going through. For what it's worth, I always find that challenging myself to do things that are slightly outside my comfort zone is what makes the difference. Even a little moment of achievement or happiness can be the start.
It's easy for me to say but please don't worry about what anyone else might be thinking. Most people will either want to help or be too preoccupied with their own stuff to think negatively of you.
Enjoy your breakfast, get a few hours sleep and go to the match. Sounds like the makings of a positive day!
Offer of a lift to the game is still open too
