The dark dark clouds, never give up hope.

sadgit

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I've been in yet another dark place for the last 10 days. I missed the Fury fight, the England football and that England test crazy victory. Because I was living in my total self pity mode. My wife is amazing and I will repeat again, groups like Andy's Man Club are worth their weight in gold, I go the the one at Hartlepool football club, as I like the 30 minutes drive each way, so listen to Audible and pause and reset. Don't do what I do and wallow in it. Life is great, so talk talk talk, never suffer in silence. I'm not ashamed of my illness as it helps be to be so very open about it.
 
I've been in yet another dark place for the last 10 days. I missed the Fury fight, the England football and that England test crazy victory. Because I was living in my total self pity mode. My wife is amazing and I will repeat again, groups like Andy's Man Club are worth their weight in gold, I go the the one at Hartlepool football club, as I like the 30 minutes drive each way, so listen to Audible and pause and reset. Don't do what I do and wallow in it. Life is great, so talk talk talk, never suffer in silence. I'm not ashamed of my illness as it helps be to be so very open about it.
You can't let it beat you. Talking is great and just keeping yourself occupied in other ways helps too. Shame is a useless thing. I don't have any shame anymore. I don't miss it. Look after yourself mate. Hope that you'll be feeling better soon.
 
I've mentioned before on here that we should organise a FMTTM walking group. If anyone is feeling down/in a dark place and fancy getting out for a bit of fresh air, then I am more than willing to go walking with them - I love being out and about whatever the weather.
 
I've been in yet another dark place for the last 10 days. I missed the Fury fight, the England football and that England test crazy victory. Because I was living in my total self pity mode. My wife is amazing and I will repeat again, groups like Andy's Man Club are worth their weight in gold, I go the the one at Hartlepool football club, as I like the 30 minutes drive each way, so listen to Audible and pause and reset. Don't do what I do and wallow in it. Life is great, so talk talk talk, never suffer in silence. I'm not ashamed of my illness as it helps be to be so very open about it.
Big love Brother from an Internet stranger. I really hope things get better for you soon.

UTB 👍
xxx
 
well done for being open about depression... that's half the battle. The human condition is made for suffering and it's natural, it's just that our culture struggles to recognize it, and that's depressing. I'm sure most people suffer in silence, and from my own experience that never works.
I'm a Buddhist so practice meditation to deal with the negative thoughts, not for everyone but it works for me and keeps me going. The darkness doesn't go away, it never really goes away for anyone, but you can see it differently.
Look after yourself.
 
I've been in yet another dark place for the last 10 days. I missed the Fury fight, the England football and that England test crazy victory. Because I was living in my total self pity mode. My wife is amazing and I will repeat again, groups like Andy's Man Club are worth their weight in gold, I go the the one at Hartlepool football club, as I like the 30 minutes drive each way, so listen to Audible and pause and reset. Don't do what I do and wallow in it. Life is great, so talk talk talk, never suffer in silence. I'm not ashamed of my illness as it helps be to be so very open about it.
Keep talking mate.
Many on here been through that dark space.
You might not always feel it - but your never alone on FMTTM
Always someone ready to listen.
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I've been in yet another dark place for the last 10 days. I missed the Fury fight, the England football and that England test crazy victory. Because I was living in my total self pity mode. My wife is amazing and I will repeat again, groups like Andy's Man Club are worth their weight in gold, I go the the one at Hartlepool football club, as I like the 30 minutes drive each way, so listen to Audible and pause and reset. Don't do what I do and wallow in it. Life is great, so talk talk talk, never suffer in silence. I'm not ashamed of my illness as it helps be to be so very open about it.
To say a good wife/partner are worth their weight in gold doesn’t do them justice really.
 
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